Welcome to SHAMELESS
Your uncensored gateway into the world of Vanillacooldance—my sex-positive cartoon turned global movement of 80k+ humans done with shame.
Here, we flip the script on societal norms, taboo topics and talk about the things most people are too afraid to say out loud… but secretly crave.
From sexual fantasies to body hair, STIs to period sex, heartbreak to pegging—nothing is off-limits.
We’re all born shameless. It’s the world that teaches us to feel small, silent, and insecure.
This is where we break that cycle, together.
Welcome!
💌 Why Subscribe:
Whether you're navigating dating, desires, relationships, or just figuring out how to actively create the life YOU want—SHAMELESS is here to help you:
Speak your truth (without cringing)
Learn to express what you want, set boundaries that stick, and talk about sex without shame or awkwardness.
Undo the “good girl” conditioning
This is about owning your pleasure, your weirdness, your power, and unlearning everything that told you to hide it.
Normalize what no one talks about
From vulva shame to squirting to non-monogamy and sex parties, nothing is too taboo to unpack. And you’ll never be alone in it.
Feel more connected—to yourself and others
SHAMELESS isn’t just a newsletter. It’s a real community of curious, brave, open-hearted humans. You don’t have to do this alone.
A paid membership includes:
My Shameless Adventure Series (BDSM parties, nude shoots & more)
My most intimate diary-like essays you won’t find anywhere else like:
Behind-the-scenes stories & voice notes
Private Q&As + exclusive Zooms & community chat
Discounts, digital drops & the chance to help co-create what’s next
You can also gift a subscription to SHAMELESS!
Meet the shameless mind behind it all — Jessica Stahl
Hey, I’m Jessica Stahl! Creative Director, Cartoonist and Sexual Explorer. Recently named Sex & Relationships Creator of the Year. I’m on a mission to empower you to find your voice and embrace your unapologetic, confident self, shattering shame along the way.
I'm currently writing a TV series (more on that later!) and collaborating with brands like Feeld, Lovehoney, and WISP to create content that shakes up the status quo. From workshops to world stages, I spread the vanillacooldance message. And I bring my art to the street with viral guerrilla campaigns that reach millions—think Banksy with a sexy twist. And we are just getting started!
XX Jess
